Coulds are plentiful.
These are the things that life sets us up for. Taking a new job, because we’ve got the resume. Making a new deal, because we were in the right place at the right time.
And, no doubt, God uses these coulds.
Shoulds, on the other hand, are different.
These are the things just for us. They are not about opportunity as much as they are about purpose. In other words, they are less about we can do, and more about what God has placed us to do.
Coulds come from us using our brains and our sweat.
Shoulds come from us spending time with God, listening and obeying.
A good life is finding both.